No matter what kind of escort you are planning to hire, you should know that there are boundaries that you should follow, and this is especially the case with shemale escorts. While shemale escorts are by no means sensitive, there are still some unspoken rules that you should follow.
Consent is very important
Of course, when you are hiring shemale escorts, you are probably hiring them to fuck them. However, if someone says no, even if they agreed to offer you sex while you were talking with them before bringing them to your place, you have to respect that.
Avoid personal questions
When you go out with shemale escorts, personal questions are something that you should try and avoid. This is especially the case if you are going out with your escort on some kind of dinner date, or if you are taking her out to your office party because you needed a plus one. Things like where she lives, if she has a boyfriend/girlfriend, if she ever wants kids, or who she was before she transitioned are just some of the personal questions that you should never ask. If she brings it up on her own, you can freely follow up on it if you are interested, but never be the one bringing up personal topics. Just like they are going to respect your personal life, you should respect theirs.
Meet at a neutral place
While there are some escorts that will gladly take you into their apartment or a place where they bring their clients only, you should never invite them to your home. It is always best to meet at a hotel, or a rented apartment, as this will keep things more private.
Mention your triggers
If there are some things that can evoke bad memories, or if they can just put you in a bad mood, you should mention them before you meet up. This should go both ways, and you should ask the escort if she happens to have some as well.
In the world of escorts, using protection is highly advised, and there is really no reason to not use a condom. Most escorts will bring condoms on their own, but being prepared in case the condom breaks is always advised. Sometimes escorts will insist on raw sex, and if you do not see a problem with that, you can go for it, but my personal advice is to always use protection.